WHAT´S COUNSELLING??
We started checking our previous knowledge: translating"Orientación educativa y acción tutorial" first individually and later defining the concept by teams according to our previous knowledge and experiences.
At first we could think "what can I say?" but then we realize that guidance and counselling is something that everybody had experienced at schools in one or another way...and collecting these experiences we were able to form a reasonable definition in order to gain a general concept of the subject.
I´ve found two poems which reflect the labour made through guidance and counselling
Counselling, The Poem
" When i asked you to listen to me and you start
Giving me advice, you have
Not done what i asked.
When i ask you to listen to me and you begin
To tell me why I shouldn't feel that way, you are
Trampling on my feelings.
When i ask you to listen to me and you fell you have
To do something to solve my problems,
You have failed me, strange as that may seem.
LISTEN! All I asked was that you listen,
Not talk, or do- just hear me."
Not done what i asked.
When i ask you to listen to me and you begin
To tell me why I shouldn't feel that way, you are
Trampling on my feelings.
When i ask you to listen to me and you fell you have
To do something to solve my problems,
You have failed me, strange as that may seem.
LISTEN! All I asked was that you listen,
Not talk, or do- just hear me."
Poem to a counsellor!
Thank you for being
there,
I thought that you wouldn't really want to care.
But you do and my thinking was wrong,
You decided to stay with me after I had bombarded you for so long.
If it wasn't for you, wouldn't I have made it this far,
Before you reached out my life was blacker than tar.
Now my life has become clear,
With you to turn to I no longer have to cry a tear.
I can see that the colour has came back to my face,
I no longer look at myself as being a disgrace.
I can now go out and have fun with a friend,
And know that this fun doesn't have to end.
I hardly even get a craving,
I'm now in control of the way i'm behaving.
But at night I do find it hard and frustrating,
But and the end of the day it is progress i'm making.
I now belive in myself,
The Becky we once knew is high on the shelf.
All I have to do is take it day by day,
All this progress is down to you because you decided to stay! ! !
I thought that you wouldn't really want to care.
But you do and my thinking was wrong,
You decided to stay with me after I had bombarded you for so long.
If it wasn't for you, wouldn't I have made it this far,
Before you reached out my life was blacker than tar.
Now my life has become clear,
With you to turn to I no longer have to cry a tear.
I can see that the colour has came back to my face,
I no longer look at myself as being a disgrace.
I can now go out and have fun with a friend,
And know that this fun doesn't have to end.
I hardly even get a craving,
I'm now in control of the way i'm behaving.
But at night I do find it hard and frustrating,
But and the end of the day it is progress i'm making.
I now belive in myself,
The Becky we once knew is high on the shelf.
All I have to do is take it day by day,
All this progress is down to you because you decided to stay! ! !
Becky
Ginn
Moreover, these are the videos that we used in our web page in order to say what is counselling about:
Why its labour is such as important?
How do they work?
Why its labour is such as important?
How do they work?
Counselling must be seen as something normal!
* Some of the songs such as "time after time" or "I´ll be there for you" that can be played in the ipod placed on the margin, also remind the labour of the counsellors.

